Our world … and their world

“LOOK out the window!”

I don’t know how many times we’ve said this to our children in the car, and in how many different countries, but however amazing the view, it falls on deaf ears.

Kids! You're missing so much by not looking out the window... it's boring.com to them

Boring.com to my children. But, kids, you’re missing so much by not looking out the window!

I’ve long since learnt that if someone pipes up, “Sheep!”, they’re not looking at a flock of fluffy animals grazing on grassy meadows outside the window. There’ll be a pixelated sheep swimming across the small screen in whatever world they happen to be inhabiting on Minecraft.

And, another thing, the vast swathes of life that took place in our BC (before children) world? No interest to them. Whatsoever.

In Florida, we drove by the apartment we used to rent when DH and I were newlyweds. “Look, boys, that’s where mummy and daddy lived before you were born!” I said, pointing excitedly at the grey-timber building, nestled in lush landscaping.

There was a flicker of interest, a brief glance out the window, with one eye still on the square-headed sheep.

Then Son1 says, nonchalantly: “C’mon, let’s go! You don’t live there anymore!”

And returns to his electronic stimulation.

If my eyebrows had risen any further, they would have shot past the atmosphere.



About Circles in the Sand

Sun worshiper, journalist, mother, pilot's wife and distracted housewife living in the land of glitz and sand
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4 Responses to Our world … and their world

  1. Iota says:

    Ah yes, the old “enjoying the view” past-time. It’s a bit adult-only, isn’t it?

  2. Teresa McCluskey says:

    I am sure my 13 year old granddaughter would be unable to find her way to the nearest town (4 miles away) as she never raises her head from her gadget of the day to even see in which direction she is heading. Now that is really worrying!! Maybe she is developing some kind of sixth sense which allows her to assimilate without bothering to look? I certainly hope so, as heaven help her when she is expected to do things for herself. (This stage should, if course, have been reached approximately 3 years ago!)

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